Purchase or find in the house: Candles, scented massage oil or lotion, her favorite drink, a CD player or MP3 with speakers and soft music. You’ll also want a large towel or two.
Step #1: Clean the bedroom. Get rid of clutter and piles of laundry, kid’s toys and anything else that doesn’t belong. Vacuum. If you are lucky guy who lives in a perpetually clean dwelling, skip this step. For the rest of us who find that housework gets a tad behind, really take the time to make a soothing environment. Make the bed and cover it with large towels.